Decide and Commit!

It’s been said that the act of making a decision is power. That true but it’s just the first step. Once you decide, you must then commit to doing, being, having or creating it. Decision and commitment will be the impetus to get you going and also the fuel to...

The Lost Character Strength? Willpower!

We live in a world of constant stimulation, more choice on a daily basis than our ancestors may have experienced in a month or year. Many people feel they want or should try to go after everything or that they are losing out if they don’t. We are giving into or...

Meaning = The Ultimate Way to Win the Game of Life!

What happens when you try to control something you simply you can’t control? You make yourself crazy that’s what happens! You can’t control events – you believe you can until you live in New Orleans and Katrina happens. You can’t control the people in your...

Begin with the End In Mind

To create the life you desire you must begin by deciding what you truly want. So often we don’t think we have a choice; it is easy to look at our circumstances and feel like victims. Stop now. Clear your mind of what you think you can and/or cannot do. Clear your mind...

How To Deal With Negativity

“How do I deal with my friend, spouse, relative, co-worker, etc. who is frequently negative?” It’s a common question and concern for people committed to growth, people committed to having a positive focus in life. As you become more and more oriented toward...

When the student is ready, the teacher will appear!

Your teacher could be a character from a movie; maybe a small child opens your eyes;  the teacher could one of the Olympians you’re watching this week on t.v.; the teacher could be your future self; you just never know! When I first decided (many, many years...